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For starters, we're going to talk about how to go lets have sex Portland Maine your first sex party. For many folks, sex parties are a kind of sexual holy grail. If you fall into that camp, you're in luck, because Portland is a very sexy town, with several venues for public sex shenanigans.
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My personal favorite is Lteslocated in the former Club Sesso space downtown. The idea of a sex club might sound impossibly intimidating. It took me years to work up the guts to go. But now I'm a regular who feels more comfortable there than at most bars.
People are usually shocked when I say that, but here's the thing—sex and kink venues have party hosts and staff whose whole job is to make sure you feel lets have sex Portland Maine, and zex people are following the rules. You're way more likely to get groped at the average bar than you are at a sex party.
Most venues even have signs up lets have sex Portland Maine remind people to ask before they touch. I feel so safe at the club that I recently had an internet hook-up meet me at Privata. When we'd discussed which one of us would host, he sounded just cagey enough to send up a yellow flag, so I suggested a public place always a good idea where we could also fuck if things ended up going that local xxx in Ferriere-la-verrerie bonus!
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We checked in at the front desk, walked in together, and… it looks like any other club in town. There's a dance floor, a bar, and a seating area—and also a buffet. For better or worse, going to a public sex party isn't like Mainr into a scene from Eyes Wide Shut. Just about every venue has a big main area for socializing so you've got a chance to get your bearings before you see anyone naked. Also, public parties aren't free-for-all orgies, most of the time there's a lot more socializing than fucking.
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After all, the exhibitionists need an sec. The doctor got us drinks and I gave him the grand tour. He'd seen the first floor as we walked through so we headed upstairs. The second level has several private rooms some with windows so you can show off if you'd like and an orgy area.
The orgy beds are surrounded by a bar, lets have sex Portland Maine the rack at a strip club stage, so you can watch from near-by, fuck friend Olathe maintaining a respectful distance. The rest of the second floor has lets have sex Portland Maine couple of seating areas, one surrounding a stripper-pole, and a balcony overlooking the dance floor.
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The couples area is my personal favorite, and where I do most of my play. I've done everything from a game of spin-the-bottle with a bunch of my friends there, to a birthday orgy where I pegged the birthday boy.
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There are no doors in the couples area, instead there are several large, semi-private spaces with beds. Because solo folks aren't allowed in this space you've still got an audience, but Manie an audience of folks who often have their hands full with each other, which is the perfect level of exhibitionism for me. If this lets have sex Portland Maine has you eager to give Privata a lets have sex Portland Maine, check out my favorite of their events; Deviance!
It's their regular kink night, and it happens on the third Thursday of every month. Perhaps best of all for the new and curious, at the Deviance party you don't need to be a women looking sex Wakarusa Indiana of the club.
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We've got at least three sex clubs, and several lets have sex Portland Maine venues that cater specifically to kink. Perhaps best of all, they have lots of sexy burlesque let performances, so it's very easy to just go and watch while you're getting your sex club sea legs. The newest sexy venue in town is Sanctuary just a block away from Powell's and they host themed parties to fit just about any taste and.
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Best of all, they host lets have sex Portland Maine Friday meet-and-greets that are free if you arrive before 9 pm. Every party and venue has its own culture and rules, so check lets have sex Portland Maine the website and read through all the info including the dress code and any other policies that might affect you. Most websites also have pictures or a virtual tour, and those can help reduce some havee about what you're getting yourself.
Most venues provide some safer sex supplies, but the options can be limited. If you want anything other than a standard latex condom, it's a good idea to bring escorts reno.
I like to keep non-latex condoms, dental dams and nitrile gloves with me. Lube isn't always available either, so Maije usually got a few sample packs of Sliquid in my purse.
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If the public scene isn't your jam, you can always throw your own sex party. That might seem daunting at first, but there are ways to ease into it. Lets have sex Portland Maine great way to start massage white bear lake by throwing a party that's sexy, but doesn't include sex. I've seen everything from an erotica reading party to a spin-the-bottle party work really. This gives people who aren't used to public or group play a gentle way to ease into the idea and decide whether it's for.
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Speaking of sdx, make agreements in advance with the date s or friends you're attending. Is slipping off to play alone acceptable, or are you sticking together? Are you leaving together, or separately? If there are partners in the mix, make sure you've talked about what boundaries you lets have sex Portland Maine have about play with other folks, including needs around safer sex. Don't leave any big decisions for the heat of the moment and don't spring any surprises on someone after the fact.
Whether you go the public or private route, you might be surprised by how safe and fun public, or semi-public sex can be. And sex with friends is truly the ultimate bonding experience.
Have you got a burning question of your own? Email askhumptown wweek. Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. A national and international speaker, Stella teaches lonely deep Olathe from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM.
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